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Rememberance for Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson
At this time, let us remember our Creator, the one who brought us into this world, and the one who takes us out of this world! “Oh my Redeemer, What a friend thou art to me! Oh, what a refuge, I have in thee! When the way is dreary, and my heart is sore and oppressed. ‘Tis they voice that lull me to a calm sweet Rest”.
REMEMBERANCE For the Late Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson
Alistair was born on January 14, 1978, in this very parish Manchester Like most parents who longed for the arrival of their child, Tony and Bev were elated at the birth of their perfect baby, especially Bev, this being her first child; and so Alistair’s life began. Born to a Christian and God-fearing family, Alistair grew up in love and was cared for as a precious and priceless soul!
At the age of 4, Alistair commenced formal Primary Education at Belair Preparatory School and later pursued secondary Education at Manchester High School and Munro College. Like many youngsters, Alistair was undecided about his career path, so he entered several tertiary and Vocational Institutions to include GC Foster College and Jamaica-German Automotive School. At the time of his death he was the Manager at his parent’s family business in Junction, St Elizabeth.
For those of us who knew Alistair (affectionately referred to as “Al”), will agree that he did not only possess physical beauty which caused him to be described as handsome and cute, but he had a gentle and kind heart. Al had a smile that was captivating and heart wrenching! A Memorial website, created by one of his special cousins – “Sandra” revealed through the numerous tributes, condolences, and testimonials posted that “Al” was kind, loving, caring, affectionate compassionate and charming!
He was passionate and intense about his convictions, beliefs and about persons he loved. As a teenager and into adulthood, “Al” endeared himself to his Peers, seniors (like myself,) and young children!
It was always amazing to watch “Al” relate to persons he considered destitute, down-trodden or generally in need. “Al” took special time out to share with such persons. He took from others like his parents, and distributed to persons after he denied himself to provide for their needs. There are numerous stories told of “Al’s” kindness to friends, associates and even strangers.
Only last week I was told by his friend in Junction named “Shortie”, that “Al” often visited her business place, he would look around and then purchase a drink for everyone in the shop, very often spending the last dollar in his pocket.
“Al” was described as an advocate for persons he considered needing moral support or those who didn’t have a voice. This he often did at great risk to himself, but he was never deterred. He believed in ‘equity’ and was as committed to the cause as he was determined.
“Al” had another distinct personality! He had a mischievous smile that made you know he was up to something! “Al” loved people and was compassionate to them.
There are so many stories that can be shared about “Al” and all have common threads: his goodness, compassion, kindness and love!
“Al” has left a legacy that depicts strength of character and a unique personality. We remember him as strong, bold, brave, independent and often strong-willed, even if it was to his disadvantage. “Al’s” life did not go unappreciated, for there are those whose lives are better for having met him.
Ministers and members of this congregation, when we reflect, or reminisce upon a loved one, one who was conceived in love, born in love, grew up in love, you cannot but feel a sense of loss!
“Al’s” passing has left a void which at this time brings pain, sadness and the feeling that he is gone too soon!
There were unfinished things to do, there were more matters to speak about, there were more decisions to be made, and there were more matters to clarify. To Bev, Tony, Candice and his other siblings, you will never at this time know or understand why “Al” your loved and precious one has passed on. But, do take comfort as Christians, knowing that;
“All is well, that is done by thee”
Alistair passed-on on Tuesday morning of January 29, 2008 at the Kingston Public Hospital while his parents and sister prayed fervently for him. For those of you who do not know, Candice (Al’s sister) is a Christian and a prayer warrior. Candice never visited her brother without ministering to him and that Tuesday morning while several Doctors and other Medical Professionals did there best to keep him alive, Candice prayed for “God’s will to be done” what faith was shown!
Occasion like this, therefore, brings joy to the believer, mixed feelings and even tears:
“Al” parents and family will tell you that throughout “Al’s” life they used one factor to guide their parental responsibilities! That factor is “LOVE”
1st Corinthians Chapter 13 reminds us that “Love is patient, Love is kind,
Love is not self-seeking, Love is not easily angered, Love keeps no record of wrongs, Love protects, Love hopes, Love preserves
As one now looks towards a future without “Al’s” physical presence, I believe that before “Al” passed through the valley of the shadow of death, he made peace with his Maker.
Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson died as a result of a tragic circumstance on Tuesday, January 29, 2008, leaving to mourn his parents, Tony and Beverly, sister Candice, brothers Marlon, Richard and Andre, Uncles, Aunts, Cousins, other relatives and friends!
We will love and cherish his memories and accept his passing for we know God loves him best!
May his soul rest in peace and light perpetual shine upon him.
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