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"For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith."
The dead cannot cry out for justice;
it is a duty of the living to do so for them.
Lois McMaster Bujold
This memorial website was created for our loved one, Alistair Tomlinson who was born on January 14, 1978 and passed away on January 29, 2008 at the age of 30. We will remember him forever.
"Al" as he was known by most people, was a bright and intelligent young man, son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend. Although his life was taken from him at such a young age, our memories of him will live on forever with all those who knew him.
Al was known for his warmth and compassionate heart and his ability to make anyone smile, he touched many lives and left footprints on all our hearts.
Gone.. but always loved - and never will be forgotten.
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It broke my heart to lose you, But you did not go alone Part of me went with you, the day God called you home. A million times I've thought of you A million times I've cryed If loving could have saved you You would have never died Forgive me Lord, I'll always weep For the son I loved but could not keep.
Mom - Bev
Can a mother's tender care, cease towards the child she bears...
We often sit and think of you When we are all alone, For memory is the only friend, That grief can call its own;
Like ivy on the withered oak, When other things decay, Our love for you will still be green And never fade away
The moment that you passed our hearts were split in two, one side filled with memories the other passed with you
no one knows the pain our smiles try to hide no one knows the many times we've broken down and cried
we want to tell you something so there is no doubt your'e so wonderful to think of but so hard to live without
Please stay here a while and pay a tribute, light a candle, browse through pictures, listen to a song or two and just remember whatever influence it was that he had on you.
This website is a labour of love and a work in progress...........it will take lots of memories, numerous smiles and a river of tears to get it to where it might do Alistair justice; to share just some of who he was, what he brought to our lives and what his death might have taught us. If you have memories or photos to share, please submit them. If you can light a candle and pay a tribute please do. Thank you for visiting.
Cousin - Sandra
If Tears Could Build a Stairway and memories a lane. I would walk right up to Heaven and bring you back again.
No farewell words were spoken. No time to say "Goodbye" You were gone before I knew it. and only God knows why.
My heart still aches with sadness. and secret tears still flow. What it meant to love you- No one can ever know.
But now I know you want me to mourn for you no more: To remember all the happy times. life still has much in store.
Since you'll never be forgotten. I pledge to you today- A hollowed place within my heart is where you'll always stay.
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room I am I and you are you Whatever we were to each other That we are still Call me by my old familiar name Speak to me in the easy way you always used Put no difference into your tone Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow Laugh as we always laughed At the little jokes we always enjoyed together Play, smile, think of me, pray for me Let my name be ever the household word that it always was Let it be spoken without effort Without the ghost of a shadow in it Life means all that it ever meant It is the same as it ever was There is absolute unbroken continuity What is death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind Because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you for an interval Somewhere very near Just around the corner All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost One brief moment and all will be as it was before How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!
Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918, Canon of St Paul's Cathedral.
No matter how much Faith we have, we lose people. But we never forget them. And sometimes it's those memories that give us the strength to go on....
Candice - Sister
We've shared many laughs, and cried many tears Not just family but friends Growing up over the years. You were with me all the time Through mishief and strife Helping me to understand The lighter side's of life. We've shared a shoulder And wiped tearful eyes But like Angels we comfort We grew up wise. You were always there for me A Brothers special loving care So I thank you now Brother That God placed you there.
MOM & DAD
DAD - TONY
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY - FEBRUARY 14, 2008
Happy Mother's Day Mom......May 11, 2008
I Love You Daddy
Happy Father's Day - June 15, 2008
The Tomlinson family would like to express their sincere appreciation for all the love and kindness that has been expressed since Al's death. We are especially grateful for the prayers, visits, phone calls, cards, flowers, and expression of sympathy offered. We thank you all from the bottom of our hearts!
comfort from the bible / Alisha Washington (no relation )
Hello my name is Alisha Washington. I saw that you have suffered a lost in the family and I wanted to share my condolences. There are scriptures in the bible that will bring you comfort during this trying time two of those scriptures are found a...
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Remembering you on your First Anniversary / Sandra Gibson (cousin)
Praise Song of Remembrance / Candice Tomlinson -. Minott (Sister)
No one knows how hard it was to loose you.
Everyone tries to sympathize.
We try to hide the tears we silently cry.
I cry for the many moments that now seem like dust.
I try to grab the memories as they hide.. in my heart, in my mind.
I as...
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I am truly sorry to hear of your loss / SIMONE JONES (Schoolmate of Candice )
Candi
Today I sat idly at work and decided to search you on google .......your brother's name popped up and I am still awe struck.
I can't begin to tell you how speechless I still am even while writing this. I am truly sorry to hear of your lo...
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It still feels like yesterday / Loriann
it still feels like yesterday was the day i visited you in the hospital. When you looked up and saw me and tears fell from your eyes at the joy of seeing me everytime i think of that day it makes me sad as i didn't know that was the last time i ...
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Don't Worry About A Thing - Bob Marley "Don't worry about a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right. Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"
Rise up this mornin', Smiled with the risin' sun, Three little birds Pitch by my doorstep Singin' sweet songs Of melodies pure and true, Sayin', ("This is my message to you-ou-ou:")
Singin': "Don't worry 'bout a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right." Singin': "Don't worry (don't worry) 'bout a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"
Rise up this mornin', Smiled with the risin' sun, Three little birds Pitch by my doorstep Singin' sweet songs Of melodies pure and true, Sayin', "This is my message to you-ou-ou:"
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, worry about a thing, oh! Every little thing gonna be all right. Don't worry!" Singin': "Don't worry about a thing" - I won't worry! "'Cause every little thing gonna be all right."
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right" - I won't worry! Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right." Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, oh no! 'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!
One Love
One Love, One Heart Let's get together and feel all right Hear the children crying (One Love) Hear the children crying (One Heart) Sayin' give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right Sayin' let's get together and feel all right
Let them all pass all their dirty remarks (One Love) There is one question I'd really like to ask (One Heart) Is there a place for the hopeless sinner Who has hurt all mankind just to save his own? Believe me
One Love, One Heart Let's get together and feel all right As it was in the beginning (One Love) So shall it be in the end (One Heart) Give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right One more thing
Let's get together to fight this Holy Armageddon (One Love) So when the Man comes there will be no no doom (One Song) Have pity on those whose chances grove thinner There ain't no hiding place from the Father of Creation
Sayin' One Love, One Heart Let's get together and feel all right I'm pleading to mankind (One Love) Oh Lord (One Heart)
Give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right Let's get together and feel all right
The Broken Chain
We knew little that morning that God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone; for part of us went with you the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide; and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; but as God calls us one by one the chain will link again.
Rememberance for Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson
At this time, let us remember our Creator, the one who brought us into this world, and the one who takes us out of this world! “Oh my Redeemer, What a friend thou art to me! Oh, what a refuge, I have in thee! When the way is dreary, and my heart is sore and oppressed. ‘Tis they voice that lull me to a calm sweet Rest”.
REMEMBERANCE For the Late Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson
Alistair was born on January 14, 1978, in this very parish Manchester Like most parents who longed for the arrival of their child, Tony and Bev were elated at the birth of their perfect baby, especially Bev, this being her first child; and so Alistair’s life began. Born to a Christian and God-fearing family, Alistair grew up in love and was cared for as a precious and priceless soul!
At the age of 4, Alistair commenced formal Primary Education at Belair Preparatory School and later pursued secondary Education at Manchester High School and Munro College. Like many youngsters, Alistair was undecided about his career path, so he entered several tertiary and Vocational Institutions to include GC Foster College and Jamaica-German Automotive School. At the time of his death he was the Manager at his parent’s family business in Junction, St Elizabeth.
For those of us who knew Alistair (affectionately referred to as “Al”), will agree that he did not only possess physical beauty which caused him to be described as handsome and cute, but he had a gentle and kind heart. Al had a smile that was captivating and heart wrenching! A Memorial website, created by one of his special cousins – “Sandra” revealed through the numerous tributes, condolences, and testimonials posted that “Al” was kind, loving, caring, affectionate compassionate and charming!
He was passionate and intense about his convictions, beliefs and about persons he loved. As a teenager and into adulthood, “Al” endeared himself to his Peers, seniors (like myself,) and young children!
It was always amazing to watch “Al” relate to persons he considered destitute, down-trodden or generally in need. “Al” took special time out to share with such persons. He took from others like his parents, and distributed to persons after he denied himself to provide for their needs. There are numerous stories told of “Al’s” kindness to friends, associates and even strangers.
Only last week I was told by his friend in Junction named “Shortie”, that “Al” often visited her business place, he would look around and then purchase a drink for everyone in the shop, very often spending the last dollar in his pocket.
“Al” was described as an advocate for persons he considered needing moral support or those who didn’t have a voice. This he often did at great risk to himself, but he was never deterred. He believed in ‘equity’ and was as committed to the cause as he was determined.
“Al” had another distinct personality! He had a mischievous smile that made you know he was up to something! “Al” loved people and was compassionate to them.
There are so many stories that can be shared about “Al” and all have common threads: his goodness, compassion, kindness and love!
“Al” has left a legacy that depicts strength of character and a unique personality. We remember him as strong, bold, brave, independent and often strong-willed, even if it was to his disadvantage. “Al’s” life did not go unappreciated, for there are those whose lives are better for having met him.
Ministers and members of this congregation, when we reflect, or reminisce upon a loved one, one who was conceived in love, born in love, grew up in love, you cannot but feel a sense of loss!
“Al’s” passing has left a void which at this time brings pain, sadness and the feeling that he is gone too soon!
There were unfinished things to do, there were more matters to speak about, there were more decisions to be made, and there were more matters to clarify. To Bev, Tony, Candice and his other siblings, you will never at this time know or understand why “Al” your loved and precious one has passed on. But, do take comfort as Christians, knowing that;
“All is well, that is done by thee”
Alistair passed-on on Tuesday morning of January 29, 2008 at the Kingston Public Hospital while his parents and sister prayed fervently for him. For those of you who do not know, Candice (Al’s sister) is a Christian and a prayer warrior. Candice never visited her brother without ministering to him and that Tuesday morning while several Doctors and other Medical Professionals did there best to keep him alive, Candice prayed for “God’s will to be done” what faith was shown!
Occasion like this, therefore, brings joy to the believer, mixed feelings and even tears:
“Al” parents and family will tell you that throughout “Al’s” life they used one factor to guide their parental responsibilities! That factor is “LOVE”
1st Corinthians Chapter 13 reminds us that “Love is patient, Love is kind,
Love is not self-seeking, Love is not easily angered, Love keeps no record of wrongs, Love protects, Love hopes, Love preserves
As one now looks towards a future without “Al’s” physical presence, I believe that before “Al” passed through the valley of the shadow of death, he made peace with his Maker.
Alistair St. Elmo Tomlinson died as a result of a tragic circumstance on Tuesday, January 29, 2008, leaving to mourn his parents, Tony and Beverly, sister Candice, brothers Marlon, Richard and Andre, Uncles, Aunts, Cousins, other relatives and friends!
We will love and cherish his memories and accept his passing for we know God loves him best!
May his soul rest in peace and light perpetual shine upon him.
The hosting of this website is sponsored by Sandra & Walter Gibson. We hope that these condolences and tributes to Al will be a source of comfort to you.
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